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THE EMERGENCY MELTDOWN PROTOCOL Lead Magnet

Stop Managing Behavior
Start Healing Nervous Systems

Help your neurodivergent child (and yourself) move from dysregulation to calm in minutes.

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The Building Bridges Book has hit the #1 International Best Seller on Amazon

In my chapter in Building Bridges, I explore how adults can be the calming presence our children need during their emotional storms. Through insight and practical strategies, I guide parents on fostering resilience and understanding in their kids. Join me in learning how to navigate those turbulent times with grace and confidence. Let’s create a foundation of support and love together.

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Hi, I'm Dr. David A Palmer -
Your Nervous System Parenting Coach

For years, I watched parents burn out trying advice that was never designed for their child. I saw the same frustration in their eyes that I once felt myself—when every day felt like a battle.

Then I discovered the truth the parenting books ignore: You can't punish or reward a nervous system issue. You have to heal it.

When I started with that simple truth, the breakthroughs came. My credentials—a Doctorate in Special Education, 30 years as an educational leader, and specialization in neurodivergence and trauma—are the foundation. But my passion is giving you the tools that finally work for YOUR child's unique nervous system.

The "Start Your Journey" Roadmap

Rewire the Response

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STEP 1: Get Immediate Relief

Start by downloading our free Emergency Meltdown Protocol. Think of it as your first-aid kit for the hardest moments, giving you the exact steps and scripts to restore safety and calm when you need it most.

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STEP 2: Learn the Proven Framework

Ready to create lasting change? Join the Rewire the Response™ Signature Program. Here, you'll master the entire 6-step system for healing nervous systems, supported by an amazing community of parents.

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STEP 3: Get a Personalized Roadmap

For the highest level of dedicated support, apply for 1:1 Coaching. We’ll partner to create a plan tailored specifically to your child’s unique nervous system and your family's goals, accelerating your path to peace.

From Chaos to Connection:
Stories from the Rewire Revolution

Join the hundreds of families who have transformed their daily struggles into deeper connections using nervous system-first approaches.

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Melissa & James H.

Parents

"It has been a privilege to work with Dr.Palmer! His insights and guidance were a tremendous help... The reassurance and validation he gave us... really helped us feel so much more at ease!"

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Jennifer R.

2nd Grade Teacher

"Dr. Palmer's collaboration transformed my classroom practice... His methods challenged my views on classroom management, leading to remarkable improvements in student engagement and classroom dynamics."

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Tony & Jessica G.

Parents

"Dr. Palmer has been a blessing to our family. He has gone the extra mile... He has been and continues to be a lighthouse in navigating new waters."

Your First Step Out of the Meltdown Cycle
 
Download the Emergency Meltdown Protocol and discover:

  • The 5-step process that restores safety in any meltdown moment.

  • Exact scripts for what to say when your child is dysregulated.

  • How to co-regulate your own nervous system first (the step everyone else misses).

This isn't another sticker chart or time-out strategy. This is a science-backed protocol to restore safety and connection when your child needs you most.

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FREE DOWNLOAD:

The Emergency Meltdown Protocol

You are one page away from having a real plan for the hardest moments. You don't have to feel lost, helpless, or alone anymore. The next time a meltdown starts, you can be the calm in the storm.

"This changed our entire family dynamic. We went from daily battles to daily connection." - Sarah M., Mom of 8-year-old with ADHD

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