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Stop Reacting. Rewire the Response.
Create Calm.
Cultivate Connection.
For parents and educators of kids and teens with big emotions and behaviors...
who are done with behavior charts, burnout, and broken systems.
My Rewire the Response program offers practical, connection-driven tools to help adults respond calmly and compassionately to big behaviors in neurodivergent, trauma-impacted kids.
Start your shift with a free guide that moves you from survival to strength!
Sound Familiar?
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You're exhausted supporting daily sensory and emotional overloads or shutdowns
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Walking daily on eggshells, not knowing what will trigger the next reaction?
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Wondering "Why doesn't anything work?" or "Can things be different?"
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Burned out, blamed, and out of ideas?
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Longing for calm, connection, clarity, and confidence?
You’re not alone.
You can respond instead of react.
Let me show you how!
Honored to Work With:
I help adults rewire their response so connection replaces Control.
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Hi, I'm Dr. David
You're here because you know there has to be a better way.
For too long, you've been told that stricter discipline, more consequences, and tougher rules will "fix" the challenges you face with your neurodivergent kids' challenging behaviors.
But deep down, you know that approach isn't working—it’s only creating more meltdowns, more resistance, and more frustration.
It’s time to break free from outdated models that do more harm than good. You don’t need more power struggles—you need real solutions that build trust, connection, and emotional resilience.
Don't believe it? Download my free guide or book a complementary 30-minute coaching call with me!
Three Steps. One Shift. Lifelong Impact.
1. Get trauma-informed tools
that decode behavior, build emotional safety, create healthy environments.
2. Regulate the nervous system
both yours and your child's by implementing a few simple-to-follow steps.
3. Transform homes and classrooms
through connection and trust, not control or compiance.
It has been a privilege to work with Dr.Palmer! His insights and guidance were a tremendous help in navigating all things neurodivergence and parenting in general. The reassurance and validation he gave us in knowing what we were dealing with on a daily basis was not only typical but expected, really helped us feel so much more at ease!
Melissa & James H.
Parents
Dr. Palmer's collaboration transformed my classroom practice. he offered insights that changed my understanding of all students' needs, not just those with special needs. His methods challenged my views on classroom management, leading to remarkable improvements in student engagement and classroom dynamics.
Jennifer R.
2nd Grade Teacher
Dr. Palmer has been a blessing to our family. He has gone the extra mile to support our child and our whole family. He has provided very informative assessments, and his coaching has been instrumental in meetings at school. He has been and continues to be a lighthouse in navigating new waters.
Jessica & Tony G.
Parents
The Rewire the Response Method
1. Recognize the Pattern
See the nervous system beneath the behavior.
2. Regulate Yourself First
Shift from reactivity to presence.
3. Respond with Connection
Lead with calm. Build trust.
Rewire the outcome.
